My Goal
Here is a little bit about us. Our goal is simple…promote the joys and benefits of living a naked life, share our stories and adventures, the changes we’ve made to live a better life, the better people we’ve become, and how we can incorporate nakedness into our everyday lives. I don’t promote pornography, but I do promote sexual health for men, women, and couples. If you’re looking for pornographic material, then please keep going because you won’t find it here. Most of all I want to normalize nudity and help people feel better about themselves.
A Quick Background About Us
Hello, my name is Alexis. A bit about me…I grew up living in in the Bible belt of the southern United States with deep roots in Christianity, and a belief that we are called to do work by a higher power. To say the least, my journey through naturism has been more of a “secret life” than an open advocacy of promoting it and living a free, naked life. While I still choose to use the internet to advocate and promote this lifestyle I have chosen, I have told my family about vacations in the nude. The respones were YOLO and you’re braver than me, and my kids were like “yeah, I could see you doing that”. Originally, I had hoped that blogging about it would give me more confidence to talk about it. Turns out it did and now I have a partner who not only accepts it, but is embracing it too. Who knows, maybe there’s more of you like me out there and we can all build our confidence together.
Rediscovering Me
After separating from my ex, I embraced the naked lifestyle because it allowed me to refocus and find myself. Over the years I feel like I truly lost who I was and I wanted to desparately find myself again. I didnn’t really know where to start, but I knew that being naked made me feel happy. So this is where I started. This thought took me back about ten years.
Back in the early 2010’s I visited my first nudist resort/club while on a business trip to Orlando, Florida. I was in Orlando for training related to my new job. I have always enjoyed being naked and looked at nudist information online and found it so intriguing. So, while in Orlando, I looked up a few different places to visit. Most places seemed to be couples or family oriented, which is fine, but if I was going solo I wanted something low key and relaxing.
I spent the afternoon relaxing and reading, and I ventured into the pool for a bit. It was late October at the time and the pool water was rather cold, so I didn’t stay in it long. I laid out in the sun, walked the grounds, and just enjoyed myself. I stayed until the little old man told me I had to leave. It was only a day club and they closed near sundown.
Focusing On Going Foward
Reminiscing on the past, trying to pull my anxiety under control, and learning a new way to live gave me a bit of hope of what was to come. Admittedly, I became a hermit. All I wanted to do was be naked as much as I could, and I didn’t want anyone to stand in my way of doing that. I lived with that for 20 year, and I would be damned if I did it again. For once in my life, I was finally happy.
Once I came to this revelation, I knew that whoever I ended up with in my life they would have to be accepting of me for who I am. We have all made mistakes and we all have regrets, but I needed unconditional acceptance. I am willing to unconditionally accept and love someone, so I expected that in return. Non-negotiable as they say. I never had that and needed it so very much.
About Us: Discovering Mike
During my separation and divorce process with my ex, I began dating a little bit. Focus on a little bit. I met a couple of guys on Reddit with a throwaway account, but they were not very high quality. After a little more than a year of being separated, I began to actually look for someone. It took everything I had but I eventually made a profile on Bumble and started to look…a bit. I didn’t have high expectations given what I had seen of dating from others.
After going on a few dates with some cannon fodder, I came across Mike’s profile. That’s probably because I had saw he swiped on me first. 🙂 We instantly hit if off and agreed to meet in person at a local bar. After the first offical date our conversations began to get deeper and more involved. Things were going well and we were both being transparent about our past and what we were looking for. Surpisingly, they were very similar. I still had not mentioned I enjoy living naked. I thought it was too soon for this.
The Truth Comes Out
I dont’ remember how long we had been dating when I told Mike I enjoyed living naked, but I don’t remember it being too long. I didn’t just say “hey, I’m into naturism and live naked all the time”. It was more of a “I don’t really see a need to put clothes on if I don’t have to”. Of course, over time the truth came out and it was evident because everytime I would get a FaceTime call I was naked. It didn’t seem to bother him and eventually he started enjoying being naked more often too. It’s a win-win!
Connections
As our relationship grew I became more and more comfortable and the connection between the two of us became very strong. This was the connection and intimacy I yearned for and talke about in a post from a couple years ago. If you haven’t read Establishing Intimacy and Connections Through Nudity, please go check it out. I talk about the deep connection we were establishing.
The connection we established was based on trust and vulnerability, and each of us quickly came to a point where we could unconditionally trust one another. I have a very hard time trusting people, so the fact Mike could establish that kind of trust with me is miraculous. I have told him things I never told anyone else. It’s a great feeling to have.
Working Together
There came a time when I planned to just give up on blogging and trying to maintain a website. Overwhelmed with school, life, and work, I threw my hands up and said I was done. Thanks to the love and support of Mike, I am able to keep going and I he commmitted to helping me keep things going.
We are looking forward to being a content creator power couple, and we are looking forward to you following along with us.
If you enjoy the content you see on here, please donate to support us. Donations give us a lot of encouragement to keep doing what we are doing. Plus, it will help us to purchase equipment needed to capture pictures, videos, and create visuals for an even better experience!
Shed your clothes and choose the clothes free life. You’ll never look back once you do.
Let’s live a full, nude, and healthy life!
Alexis